Because lying to your kids about sex helps nobody. Telling them that sex is “only between mommies and daddies” is a lie that leads to confused, hormone charged teenagers. Telling them that sex is “only something that happens when two people love each other very much” is a lie that causes hormone charged teenagers to confuse “love” with “lust,” or “obsession.” It leads to leaps of logic like, “If I have sex with them, we must be in love.” Or worse- “If I love them, I have to have sex with them.” And how many teenage tragedies are based on that misconception?

Lea Grover, "We Don’t Play With Our Vulvas At The Table"  (via scarlinged)

The Garden of Earthly Delights


I did not write the melody to this song. Its transcribed from this 600 year old visual representation of Hell. In one small section of the Where’s Waldo style hellscape a man is being crushed by an instrument and has this melody written on his butt.